Signs Your Baby Is Ready for Weaning (And What You’ll Need)
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Weaning is one of those milestones that sneaks up on you. One day you're purely in the world of milk feeds, and the next you're googling whether sweet potato puree stains permanently. (It does. Get a good bib.)
The good news is that your baby will usually give you plenty of signals when they're ready to start solids. Here's what to watch for — and what to have ready when the moment arrives.
When Is Your Baby Ready for Weaning?
The NHS recommends introducing solid foods at around 6 months, but every baby is different. Rather than watching the calendar, watch your baby. The NHS sets out three signs that matter, and it's worth knowing all three — not just the classic head-control one most people have heard of:
1. They can stay sitting up and hold their head steady
Your baby needs to be able to sit with support and hold their head upright confidently to swallow food safely. Slumping or head wobbling means their core strength isn't quite there yet.
2. They can look at food, reach for it, and get it to their mouth
This is about co-ordination as much as interest — eyes, hands and mouth working together so your baby can pick something up and actually get it in, rather than just watching mealtimes or grabbing at anything within reach.
3. They can swallow food rather than spit it straight back out
Early on, babies push things back out with their tongue — a protective reflex that stops them swallowing anything that isn't milk. Once that fades, food stays in and gets swallowed instead of ejected.
The NHS is also clear about what doesn't count: chewing on fists, waking more often at night, and wanting extra milk feeds are all normal baby behaviour, not hunger or readiness signals. It's easy to read into these when you're tired and looking for a reason it's time to start, but they're not the three that matter.
Don't worry if your baby is clearly ticking off one or two of these before the third catches up — that's normal, and most babies get there within the same few weeks around the six-month mark.
Baby-Led Weaning vs. Traditional Weaning
There are two main approaches, and plenty of parents end up combining elements of both.
Baby-led weaning (BLW) means offering soft, age-appropriate finger foods from the start and letting your baby self-feed. It's messier, but it lets your baby explore textures and flavours at their own pace and builds independence from day one. A good silicone suction plate is your best friend here — it won't move when your baby grabs it, which means the food stays on the plate rather than the floor.
Traditional weaning involves puréeing foods and spoon-feeding, gradually introducing more texture as your baby develops. Many parents find this easier to manage at the very beginning, particularly for first foods. Soft silicone weaning spoons are ideal — gentle on sensitive gums and easy for little mouths to manage.
Most parents find themselves somewhere in the middle. Follow your baby's lead, and don't worry too much about which camp you're in.
One thing that stops a lot of parents committing to BLW: the fear of choking. It's worth knowing before you start that gagging — loud, red-faced, but clearly breathing — is completely different from choking, and is actually your baby's airway working exactly as it should. We've written a full guide to telling gagging from choking, and what to do if it happens — worth reading before that first meal, not during it.
What You'll Need to Get Started
You don't need to spend a fortune to wean well. Here's what actually makes a difference:
A good high chair
Your baby needs to be seated safely and upright for every meal. Make sure the chair supports their back properly and positions them at a comfortable height.
Weaning bibs
Soft, long-sleeved bibs are worth their weight in gold. Weaning is messy — spectacularly so — and a bib that covers the arms will save you a lot of washing. Silicone bibs with a food catcher are brilliant for catching dropped morsels.
Suction plates and bowls
A plate or bowl that stays put on the highchair tray makes a huge difference. Our silicone suction range is particularly popular with weaning parents for exactly this reason — the suction base grips the tray and doesn't release until you want it to. If you're wondering why suction sometimes fails, our guide to suction plates and bowls covers the five usual causes.
Soft silicone spoons
Gentle on gums and easy to clean. Look for ones with a shallow bowl and a long handle that's easy for you to hold while still being manageable for your baby as they start to self-feed.
Sippy cups and open cups
From around 6 months, you can introduce water with meals in a free-flow sippy cup or an open cup. The NHS recommends open cups where possible as they're better for dental development long term.
Complete feeding sets
If you'd rather get everything in one go, our silicone and bamboo feeding sets include plate, bowl, bib, spoon, fork and cup — everything you need to start weaning without hunting down individual pieces. Our post on what's in a feeding set explains whether a set beats buying separately.
Still deciding between materials? Read bamboo vs silicone baby plates.
Tips for a Smoother Start
A few things that genuinely help in those first weeks:
Start with one meal a day. There's no rush. Introducing one small meal — usually lunchtime — at first gives your baby time to adjust and you time to get used to the process.
Introduce one new food at a time. Wait two or three days between new foods so you can spot any reactions. Keep a simple note of what you've introduced if it helps.
Expect rejection — and don't take it personally. Research suggests babies can need to see a new food up to 15 times before they'll accept it. Keep offering, keep it relaxed, and resist the urge to force it.
Make it social. Eating together, or at least at the same time as your baby, helps enormously. Babies are natural mimics — seeing you eat is one of the most powerful cues there is.
Embrace the mess. A mat under the highchair, a long-sleeved bib, and low expectations for the first few weeks will save your sanity.
FAQs
Can I start weaning before 6 months?
The NHS doesn't recommend starting before 4 months under any circumstances, and advises waiting until around 6 months for most babies. If you're considering starting earlier for a specific reason, it's worth talking to your health visitor or GP first rather than going by signs alone.
What if my baby was premature?
Readiness is usually judged from your baby's corrected age — the age they'd be if born on their due date — rather than their actual birth date. Your health visitor can talk you through timing if your baby was born early.
Do breastfed and formula-fed babies show different signs?
No. The three signs are about physical and developmental readiness, not feeding method, so they apply the same way whichever way your baby is currently fed.
My baby shows the signs but doesn't seem that interested in food. Is that a problem?
Not necessarily. Interest often builds over the first week or two of trying, especially with baby-led weaning, where there's more to look at and handle. Keep offering in a low-pressure way and give it a little time before worrying.
Weaning is one of those things that feels overwhelming before you start and completely normal within a few weeks. Trust your baby, trust yourself, and enjoy it — there's genuinely nothing quite like watching a small person discover that food exists.
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